Consent & Compatibility Pack
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Public Kink, Private Autonomy: Consent Beyond the Room
Content note: This post discusses consent, boundaries, and public play. Take what serves you and skip what does not. What
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9 Common Struggles Kinksters Face (And How to Work Through Them)
Being kinky is about more than scenes, roles, and toys. It’s about navigating real relationships, real emotions, and sometimes, real
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Kink and Neurodiversity: Why So Many Neurodivergent Folks Find a Home in BDSM
Content warning: This post discusses trauma, neurodivergence, and sexual expression. There’s a quiet truth that is increasingly being voiced across
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Kink as Healing: Navigating Triggers and Pleasure
Content note: This post discusses trauma, emotional triggers, and healing through kink. Please proceed gently and take breaks if you
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The Kink Orientation Scale: Finally, Science Gets Kinky Right
What Is the Kink Orientation Scale? If you’ve ever wondered whether kink is a preference, a personality trait, or a
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BDSM for Couples: Reigniting Connection Through Kink
Every long term relationship goes through seasons. Some full of passion and closeness, others marked by distance, routine, or disconnection.
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Attachment Styles and Power Play: What You Need to Know
Kink isn’t just about ropes, rituals, or roles. Beneath every power exchange is something even more personal-how we connect. Understanding
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How to Talk to a Partner About Trying Kink
Bringing up kink with a partner can feel like walking a tightrope-vulnerable, uncertain, and high stakes. Whether it’s bondage, impact
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Porn Lies That Could Hurt You: Debunking 5 Common BDSM Myths
Let’s be honest. Most of us got our first visual introduction to BDSM through porn. Whether it was a blindfolded
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